Can't be happy and smart

Things are finally getting back to normal between me and the hubby and we have come to a conclusion, you can not be smart and happy, you can only have one or the other. When we are happy together we act like idiots and can't focus on too much. We pretty much only focus on being happy, I guess at some point we will be able to balance the two but for now we have to "suffer". When we are doing school work we have to be apart while we are working on it. I'm so happy we a finally happy together again. I happy being happy and dumb.